Four decades of healing history, the top experts in an often-misunderstood field, and the most advanced approaches to address a wide range sexual addiction and behavioral disorders.
Our comprehensive program addresses sexual addictions, unresolved trauma, and co-occurring issues, going beyond symptoms to explore root issues and lay the groundwork for lasting healing.
Group and one-on-one therapy are just the beginning. We employ a wide range of methods and modalities, including valuable peer support, to address each person’s unique needs.
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Change takes work, but it can’t be harder than living with unresolved addiction, trauma, and other disorders. If you or someone you love needs help, we’re ready and waiting.
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Realizing you or a family member needs help is one thing, choosing the right program is another. The process is often confusing and overwhelming. We hope that the information provided here will answer your questions and help you determine if Gentle Path at the Meadows is the right place for you to begin to heal.
In 2018 the World Health Organization (WHO) added compulsive sexual behavior disorder as an impulse control disorder to the International Classification of Diseases, Eleventh Revision.
According to the ICD-11, compulsive sexual behavior disorder is characterized by a persistent inability to control intense, repetitive sexual impulses or urges resulting in recurring sexual behavior. This pattern manifests over an extended period (six months or more), negatively affecting familial, social, educational and/or occupational areas of functioning.
This just made official what was already widely understood within the treatment field: Sexual addiction is a disorder, not a character weakness or simply bad behavior. Gentle Path Founder Dr. Patrick Carnes developed diagnostic criteria related to sex addiction which includes but is not limited to a pattern of out-of-control behavior, consequences due to sexual behavior, inability to stop despite adverse consequences, sexual obsession, and fantasy as a primary coping strategy, neglect of important social, occupational, or recreational activities, and inordinate amounts of time spent in obtaining sex, being sexual, or recovering from sexual experiences. Dr. Carnes also created a treatment program that specifically addresses these issues in a way that can bring freedom and lasting healing.
Sexual addiction, also known as sex addiction, is a conceptual model that describes compulsive participation or engagement in sexual activity, despite negative consequences. It is a disorder, not a character weakness lack of self-control. Sex addiction is characterized by sexual compulsivity, obsession, persistence engaging in sexual behaviors despite negative consequences, and symptoms of withdrawal and tolerance related to sexual activity.
There are many factors that contribute to which mental health disorders appear in the American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM). New editions of the DSM are published as our understanding and conceptualization of mental illness evolves and expands based on research. Compared to other mental health issues, research on how to stop sex addiction is relatively new and, admittedly, controversial. One important change to the DSM-5 is the inclusion of gambling disorder in the category Substance-Related and Addictive Disorders, based on research that gambling activates the brain’s reward system in the same way that a drug does. While other process addictions like internet addiction and sex addiction were not included in this version of the DSM-V, this change is promising in that it opens the door for further scientific research to be conducted on addictive behaviors that are profoundly impacting people’s lives.
In 2018 the World Health Organization (WHO) added compulsive sexual behavior disorder as an impulse control disorder to the International Classification of Diseases, Eleventh Revision. According to the ICD-11, compulsive sexual behavior disorder is characterized by a persistent inability to control intense, repetitive sexual impulses or urges resulting in recurring sexual behavior. This pattern manifests over an extended period (six months or more), negatively affecting familial, social, educational and/or occupational areas of functioning.
Yes, we have male and female staff members working at Gentle Path. Our staff members are highly trained and experienced in maintaining appropriate professional boundaries with patients at all times. We understand that sex addiction is a disease of profound boundary failure. Our patients have the opportunity to begin practicing their boundaries through interactions with trained professionals in the safety of a treatment setting before being challenged to implement them in the outside world.
Everyone on campus is typically a patient, family member, authorized guest, or Meadows employee. Our facility stands in the center of a large section of property situated off the main road and is secluded from view by dense trees and foliage. Members of the press and unauthorized persons will be escorted from the property immediately. Also, cell phones, cameras, and recording devices are prohibited on campus to protect the confidentiality of our patients.
Patients sign a confidentiality agreement upon admission and are asked to pledge to maintain the confidentiality of their peers regularly. The importance of this is consistently reiterated throughout treatment. During family work, guests and authorized visitors on campus also sign a confidentiality agreement. All Meadows employees are legally and ethically bound to maintain your confidentiality and exceptions to staff confidentiality will be discussed upon admission. Patients will be notified of any professional visitors to campus, and those individuals will also sign confidentiality agreements.
While we are licensed to treat up to 28 patients at one time, our patient census may vary over the course of your stay, typically ranging anywhere from 12 to 24 patients.
Treating addiction effectively requires long-term dedication to your personal recovery. There is no such thing as a “get well quick” response to addiction. It takes longer than four weeks to get the traction you need to change the lifelong-held beliefs and behaviors that are rooted in addictions. Scientific evidence reveals that individuals who remain in treatment longer have a better chance of maintaining long-term sobriety.
Access to email and internet is limited to maintain the security of our treatment facility. Additionally, we have found that patients receive the maximum benefit from treatment when they are free from work-related stressors and able to focus on their recovery process without distraction. Patients may be granted very limited and supervised access to email at the discretion of their primary therapist. However, we suggest that you make alternative arrangements for the management of your work responsibilities and plan to only “work” on your recovery while in treatment.
No. Access to electronics is limited to provide a safe and secure environment free from distractions and conducive to healing and sobriety. Electronic elements such as TV, internet surfing, and even radios or music can distract our patients from the emotional work they are doing on a daily basis. Over the course of several decades, we have found that the best work is done by patients with only limited access to these distractions. Patients do have access to a community television during specified times of the day.
Patients participate in weekly Equine Therapy, which involves therapeutic interaction with horses; however, horseback-riding is not part of our program. Family members may also have an opportunity to participate in Equine Therapy during family work.
Each patient is assigned to a primary therapist who is responsible for overseeing his individualized treatment plan and case management needs. You will see your primary therapist every weekday in the primary group. While the primary treatment modality at Gentle Path at The Meadows is group therapy, patients will meet individually with their primary therapists, trauma resolution therapists, evening/weekend therapists, and continuing care coordinator several times throughout their stay. Additionally, patients have individual sessions with our Medical providers, psychiatrists, and psychologists.
Homework assignments are part of the treatment program, and there is time structured into the daily schedule for homework completion. While the Gentle Path program schedule is highly structured, there is also time for rest, relaxation, exercise, socializing, and play. We consider all of these activities to be essential to maintaining a healthy, balanced lifestyle.
While we are not a 12-Step program, we do include a 12-Step emphasis, believing that sex addiction treatment benefits from a 12-Step basis. People who learn the steps and go to meetings do much better than those who do not. One of the frequent objections to the 12-Step approach is its requirement for a spiritual basis. However, a person does not have to identify with any particular religious or spiritual belief system to benefit from the support provided by the 12-Step fellowship and have found it beneficial to the maintenance of long-term recovery.
One of the challenges in recovery is learning to approach and work on deeply personal issues. It’s about learning to deal with what Carl Jung called the “shadow self.” In recovery, you start on a journey that will help you expose your shadow self and allow you to see who you are. One difficult task is to explore relationships with others and your relationship with yourself both past and present. 12-Step and other recovery support groups are crucial in facilitating this process. Working within the context of a group comprised of others who have been in your shoes allows you to let your barriers down and let others get to know who you are. Meetings help to build that critical support network where you can share your successes and failures, let others know when you are in trouble, and provide an environment where you can ask for help.
Recovery is not an event; it is a process. Attending and being involved in 12-Step groups as well as finding and utilizing the help and support of a sponsor helps to sustain ongoing recovery.
Gentle Path at The Meadows has trained staff on hand to help our patients with their exercise and recreational needs in our self-contained fitness area. We recognize that exercise is an important part of recovery and frequently our patients require assistance in learning how to balance life and exercise needs. At Gentle Path at The Meadows, we schedule time each week for fitness and recreation activities. Our campus also includes a pool, sand volleyball court, outdoor basketball court, and putting green on site. We offer yoga and tai chi regularly, and we have access to a ropes course and horses for equine therapy at our sister facility, Rio Retreat Center, located just across town.
Gentle Path has a full staff that can accommodate special dietary needs. Led by a registered dietician who also has a master’s degree in counseling, the team works with our classically trained chef. Meals are prepared from only the best and freshest ingredients, with the dietary needs of the patients given great consideration. Special dietary needs should be communicated to the intake coordinator you are speaking with before admission.
We have found that sharing rooms offers an opportunity for increased accountability and support during treatment. Patients may be placed in private rooms at different points in their stay depending on room occupancy, however a private room cannot be guaranteed and may be contraindicated. Sex addiction is a disease of isolation, and individuals who suffer from it often report feeling “alone in a crowd.” At times, private rooms can add to that isolation, and those are feelings we want to address during the treatment process while at Gentle Path.
Requests for room changes are handled on a case-by-case basis. Our patient community is relatively small, and challenging interactions with your peers can often be experienced as growth opportunities. However, every effort will be made to make your stay comfortable so you can focus on the issues that brought you to treatment.
Family members will be encouraged to be an active and integral part of the process. During treatment, they may be invited to attend an intensive week-long family workshop, if it is deemed appropriate for your unique situation. We believe that family support and involvement in the process is a key component for success in long-term recovery. During family work, family members will explore addiction, recovery, and healthy relationship dynamics while in a safe environment focused on healing.
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